Tough

Women are known to be weak. Men have more opportunities because everyone thinks they are more capable than women. That’s why we promote gender equality. But making it simple, pertaining to an individual, just being a woman, how tough are you?

The phrase “strong independent woman” is over used by many people. They consider themselves strong and independent. I can also consider myself strong but not independent. But being tough as a woman alone is hard. How is it possible that there are woman who has strong personalities? How can we consider a woman tough?

1 . She have God

According to Psalm 46:5, “God is within her, she will not fall”. Having a God in your heart, you are confident in facing the trials that approaching you because you know you can’t but your God can. Many women, withstand challenges because they have a strong God within them, fighting for them nd not letting them down.

2. Self-love

Self love is hard to attain. Simple words but big impact. Having self love is not selfish, it is knowing how you need to be treated. Having self love affects a woman’s personality. They know where and when to be. They know how to take care of their hearts and knowing what might hurt them.

3. Knowing her worth

Actually, this is a part of the process of attaining self love. As woman, you should know your worth. You should know what you deserve and what you don’t. You should cut off toxic people in your life that isn’t healthy for your heart. You should know how people should treat you, you know your limit, you know when to voice out. You should know your standards.

4. Knowing her capabilities

Knowing what you can do is a big part of being a strong woman. You don’t let people underestimate or discourage you. As long as you really can do something, you will. Know your abilities and take advantage of your strength.

5. Discipline

Being strong is good but knowing when and where to be strong is right. Yes, we can have strong personalities but we should also have discipline on how to show it. You don’t have to be war freak just to show you can. You should know your limit as a person.

Being a strong woman is definitely hard. Trying to face everything that your surroundings throw against you, trying to be an inspiration to others and trying to prove yourself to other people is a complicated job, but considering the 5 points enumerated above, it will be easy to have a firm and tough personality if you already attain those. The biggest point of all is having God, He is the strength and He is the key to everything. Have Him in your life and everything will follow.