Being in love is one of the most wonderful feeling in the world. You felt sparks, undefined happiness, butterflies and you just can’t explain how happy it is to fall in love. But that’s not how love works, you also felt pain, disappointment, jealousy or discouragement that will probably test your faith and love. These are all part of falling in love, the joy and the pain. And when we’re inlove, we tend to give all that we can, sometimes there’s a point that we already gave everything that we had. And that’s a mistake.
I learned that when we love, we shouldn’t give it all. We should atleast leave some for ourselves. We don’t have to gave every inch of us for the person we love, because we will lose. We will lose ourselves. When I gave everything, i left nothing for myself, and that’s the most painful part. I learned that, self love is the most important thing. We need to see our value, our worth or what we really deserve, because if we just focus on our love for other people, we are breaking ourselves.
I learned to value myself, and soon, when I am fully capable and have the full courage, i will choose myself. Soon. And i wish you also choose yourself too.
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