There are times like everything is falling apart. It felt like nothing good seems to happen, everything is a mess and it’s just a no hope day for you. It seems like there is no reason to be happy at all. The thoughts crawl upon our minds until it conquers it fully. We can’t deny that we have our dark days that we don’t discuss with anyone. But here are some things I keep in mind every bad days I encounter
- God is with me
If God is with me, why should I worry. God holds our past, present and future. He got everything planned. The trials and dark moments of our lives are just challenges that will help us to be stronger and gonna mold us into a better version of ourselves.
2. There is hope
There will always be a new day. We all have to face problems but we don’t have to stay there. We need to overcome this phase for us to be a better person. In every bad moment, there is also a good moment. Just like they say, it’s just a bad day not a bad life
3. I have family and friends
I have my family to lean on, they’re the closest people we can share our thoughts to. We will always have our family who got our back. If we have family problems, we have friends. We have our peer for a reason. We don’t have them for display or just for fun, we have them because they have us. It’s our responsibility to be a help for our friend in those times they need us.
4. There are people who understands
Sometimes we’re not comfortable of sharing our problems to the people who are closest to our hearts but don’t forget that there are people who understands you and trustworthy enough. There are people around you that doesn’t mean a lot to you or doesn’t even have a heavy role in your life but they are willing to listen to your problems and rants. Sometimes the most unexpected people are the one who’s gonna help us.
5. There are more reasons to live
We have dreams and goals and we shouldn’t stop chasing them because of this circumstances that is holding us back. This dreams will be our inspiration to get up and encourages us that “I can”. Yes you can, you can overcome all of this, in God’s power. Someday you’ll be looking back and you’ll finally smile and tears will fall from your eyes and you’ll say “I made it”.
Life is more than just living. You will not wake up just to sleep again. You are given another opportunity not to be conquered by problems but to face it, to overcome it. You’re not just a simple person, you are stronger than you think. And you’re capable more than you think you are. Keep fighting!
Aesthetic Notebook 